Do Not Delete
Red-light therapy. Wearables. Peptides. Supplement stacks that require their own kitchen cabinet.
There’s always something new promising to help us sleep better, age slower, have more energy, balance our hormones, improve our metabolism, or finally feel like ourselves again. And some of these things may actually be useful.
But here’s where I think the wellness industry has gotten us completely turned around: we’re spending an awful lot of time, attention, and money on the 1% while the 99% gets treated like background noise.
And that’s not an accident.

The 1% Is a Lot Easier to Sell
Think about the health messages you see every day. There’s a device to improve your sleep. A supplement to boost your energy. A peptide to change your body composition. A red-light panel to support healthy aging.
Meanwhile, nobody is running a flashy ad campaign for going to bed early tonight. There’s no monthly subscription for sitting down to a nutrient-dense meal. Nobody makes money when you take a walk with a friend, put your phone away and actually relax, or spend Sunday afternoon prepping food that will make your week easier.
The wellness industry needs something to sell you. Your body doesn’t.
Your body needs the same foundational things it has always needed:
- Nutrition & hydration
- Exercise & movement
- Sleep & relaxation
- Stress resilience
- Relationships & community
That’s the 99%. It’s not trendy. It’s not new. And most of it doesn’t come in very exciting packaging.
But it’s the foundation we’re trying to build everything else on top of.
The Problem Isn’t the 1%
I want to be really clear about this because I’m not anti-supplement, anti-testing, anti-technology, or anti-wellness tool. I use some of them myself.
The question isn’t whether something can be beneficial. The question is whether it makes sense for you, right now, and in the context of everything else you’re doing for your health.
That’s a very different question.
Could red-light therapy have benefits? Yes. But if you’re regularly getting six hours of sleep, I’d rather talk about your sleep first.
Might supplements be helpful? Absolutely. But if you’re taking a handful every morning while your diet is still leaving your body undernourished or inflamed, I’d rather start with what’s on your plate.
Could your wearable give you useful information? Sure. But I’d also like YOU to learn how to recognize and respond to what your body is telling you after a good night’s sleep, when it needs recovery, or when you haven’t eaten enough.
The problem is when the 1% becomes a substitute for the 99%.
Buying something feels like taking action for our health. And when you don’t feel well, taking action feels good. You want to do something. Of course you do. We all do.
The wellness industry knows that. It also knows we’re much more likely to buy something promising better sleep than to completely restructure the way we spend the last hour before bed.
One can arrive on our doorstep Thursday. The other requires us to actually change how we’re living.
The work is worth it. The 99% is where we make the biggest, lasting difference in our health. It’s the foundation that influences how well our bodies function day after day.
I’ve Changed Where I Spend My Health Dollars
I’ve thought about this a lot as our kids have started leaving home for college. For years, feeding a family meant a pretty substantial grocery bill. As each child launched, that bill theoretically could have gone down.
Instead, we’ve intentionally used some of that freed-up grocery money to improve the quality of the food we’re buying. I’m willing to spend more on the foods and ingredients I want in our kitchen because I’ve come to see our grocery budget differently.
Food is one of the places I invest in our health.
And if I could go back in time, I would have thought about raises from work the same way. It’s so easy for a raise to disappear into life. You make a little more, so you spend a little more. Your lifestyle expands right along with your paycheck.
Knowing what I know now, I wish I had taken a portion of those increases and intentionally said, This is going toward the quality of the food feeding our family.
That doesn’t mean I think everyone needs to buy the most expensive version of every ingredient. We all have different budgets, priorities, and circumstances. It’s about the order in which I personally choose to invest.
If I have additional money available to spend on my health, my first thought isn’t, Which wellness gadget should I buy? It’s: How can I invest in better supporting my foundations?
Before You Add Something Else, Look Here First
The next time something catches your attention because it promises better sleep, more energy, improved metabolism, healthier aging, better hormones, or some other benefit you’d really like to have, ask yourself one question before adding it to your cart or wishlist:
How well am I supporting my 99% right now?
Am I eating an anti-inflammatory diet? Am I properly hydrating? Am I moving my body in the ways it needs? Am I getting enough quality sleep and actual relaxation? How am I handling the stress in my life? Am I making room for relationships and meaningful connection?
You don’t need perfect answers. And you don’t have to “earn” the right to use a supplement, buy a device, run a test, or explore another tool by perfectly checking every foundational-health box first.
But I do want you to look at the foundation before you start decorating the house.
Because sometimes the next thing your body needs isn’t another “thing” at all. Sometimes it needs more of what it has been asking for all along.






